Showing posts with label Envy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Envy. Show all posts

Monday, 11 May 2026

As Bill Sees It - May 11 2026


Obstacles in Our Path, p. 131

We live in a world riddled with envy. To a greater or lesser degree,
everybody is infected with it. From this defect we must surely get a
warped yet definite satisfaction. Else why would we consume so
much time wishing for what we have not, rather than working for it,
or angrily looking for attributes we shall never have, instead of
adjusting to the fact, and accepting it?

<< << << >> >> >>

Each of us would like to live at peace with himself and with his
fellows. We would like to be assured that the grace of God can do
for us what we cannot do for ourselves.

We have seen that character defects based upon shortsighted or
unworthy desires are the obstacles that block our path toward these
objectives. We now see clearly that we have been making
unreasonable demands upon ourselves, upon others, and upon God.

12 & 12
1. p. 67

2. p. 76

Tuesday, 25 March 2025

DAILY ZEN #essentialsofrecovery

Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.

--Buddha
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Wednesday, 10 January 2018

Walk In Dry Places #essentialsofrecovery

No Need for Envy
Overcoming Envy


We would be unusual people if we did not suffer from the common feeling of envy. Quite often, we are envious of people who surpass us in some activity or who threaten our self-esteem in some way. Even if we are high achievers in spite of our drinking, we might envy people who appear to be rivaling or overtaking us.

We can make choices about envy. We do not have to be envious of anybody when we fully accept ourselves and God’s will for us. There is no reason to be envious of another if we are doing what God wants us to do and if we have turned our will and lives over to God.

We should be on guard for jealous feelings toward those close to us. Most of us can shrug when we read about strangers winning the million-dollar lottery, but how would we feel if a close friend or relative won? When those envious feeling surface, we might face them by admitting them to others and asking God’s help in rising above them. And if we share these feelings in-group discussions, others will be helped by our display of honesty.

I will accept myself, as I am this day. I will not be jealous of anyone’s status, possessions, or opportunities.
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Wednesday, 25 January 2017

DAILY ZEN #essentialsofrecovery

Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.
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Tuesday, 10 January 2017

WALK IN DRY PLACES #essentialsofrecovery


NO NEED FOR ENVY

Overcoming Envy


We alcoholics would be unusual people if we did not suffer from the common feeling of envy. Quite often, we are envious of people who surpass us in some activity or who threaten our self-esteem in some way. Even if we are high achievers in spite of our drinking, we might envy people who appear to be rivaling or overtaking us.

As recovering people, we can make choices about envy. We do not have to be envious of any-body when we fully accept ourselves and God’s will for us. There is no reason to be envious of an-other if we are doing what God wants us to do and if we have turned our will and lives over to God.

We should be on guard for jealous feelings toward those close to us. Most of us can shrug when we read about strangers winning the million-dollar lottery, but how would we feel if a close friend or relative won? When those envious feelings surface, we might face them by admitting them to others and asking God’s help in rising above them. And if we share these feelings in group discussions, others will be helped by our display of honesty.

I will accept myself as I am this day. I will not be jealous of anyone’s status, possessions, or opportunities.

© 1996 by Hazelden Foundation
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Tuesday, 13 December 2016

EASY DOES IT #essentialsofrecovery

ENVY

There is not a passion so strongly rooted in the human heart as envy.

~ Richard Sheridan ~

In the past when we drank, used, or misbehaved, our self-worth was beaten down to the point of feeling less than everyone around us. We wallowed in feelings of worthlessness, awkwardness, sadness, and self-pity. We were envious of those who had what we wanted.

Envy brought hatred, jealousy, anger, fear, disrespect, and distrust. We wished failure and disaster on people who had become successful or had gained in any way.

Before the Program, we wanted what others had, but we didn’t know how to get it. Now we’re happy with the miracles we receive in recovery. We have discovered that doing is more important than having and experiencing is more important than possessing.

Today, I’ll remember when I practice love, caring, and sharing, I experience little envy.

©1990 by Anonymous, Published by Hazelden 
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Friday, 25 November 2016

TWENTY-FOUR HOURS A DAY #essentialsofrecovery

A.A. Thought for the Day

I am not so envious of other people, nor am I so jealous of other people’s possessions and talents. When I was drinking, I was secretly full of jealousy and envy of those people who could drink normally, who had the love and respect of their families, who lived a normal life and were accepted as equals by their friends. I pretended to myself that I was as good as they were, but I knew it wasn’t so. Now I don’t have to be envious anymore. I try not to want what I don’t deserve. I’m content with what I have earned by my efforts to live the right way. More power to those who have what I have not. At least, I’m trying. Have I got rid of the poison of envy?

Meditation for the Day

“My soul is restless till it finds its rest in Thee.” A river flows on, until it loses itself in the sea. Our spirits long for rest in the spirit of God. We yearn to realize a peace, a rest, a satisfaction that we have never found in the world or its pursuits. Some are not conscious of their need, and shut the doors of their spirits against the spirit of God. They are unable to have true peace.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may feel the divine unrest. I pray that my soul may find its rest in God.

© 1954, 1975, 1992 by Hazelden Foundation 
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Thursday, 29 September 2016

Today’s Gift #essentialsofrecovery


When people envy me I think, Oh God, don’t envy me, I have my own pains.

—Barbra Streisand

A forest is full of many different kinds of trees–they are all sizes and shapes and shades of color. It is hard to imagine a pine tree wishing it was an oak. Or a fir tree envying the birch its white bark. Instead, each tree catches raindrops and reflects the sunshine in its own way.

We often find ourselves envying someone else. We think they have more money or more friends. We see them as better looking or luckier in some way than we are.

It is so easy to overlook our own gifts when we do this. We get fooled by what looks good and forget that all human beings have some weaknesses and pain, just like we do. Like the trees in the forest, we each have our own unique beauty and talents to offer. If we believe in ourselves, rather than envy those around us, we will grow green and tall in our own way.

What qualities do I have that someone might envy? 
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Sunday, 10 January 2016

WALK IN DRY PLACES #essentialsofrec #Envy #defects #Recovery


NO NEED FOR ENVY
Overcoming Envy


We alcoholics would be unusual people if we did not suffer from the common feeling of envy. Quite often, we are envious of people who surpass us in some activity or who threaten our self-esteem in some way. Even if we are high achievers in spite of our drinking, we might envy people who appear to be rivaling or overtaking us.

As recovering people, we can make choices about envy. We do not have to be envious of any-body when we fully accept ourselves and God’s will for us. There is no reason to be envious of an-other if we are doing what God wants us to do and if we have turned our will and lives over to God.

We should be on guard for jealous feelings toward those close to us. Most of us can shrug when we read about strangers winning the million-dollar lottery, but how would we feel if a close friend or relative won? When those envious feelings surface, we might face them by admitting them to others and asking God’s help in rising above them. And if we share these feelings in group discussions, others will be helped by our display of honesty.

I will accept myself as I am this day. I will not be jealous of anyone’s status, possessions, or opportunities.

© 1996 by Hazelden Foundation
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Wednesday, 25 November 2015

TWENTY-FOUR HOURS A DAY #essentialsofrec #Recovery #Envy #Jealousy

   25
November

A.A. Thought for the Day


I am not so envious of other people, nor am I so jealous of other people’s possessions and talents. When I was drinking, I was secretly full of jealousy and envy of those people who could drink normally, who had the love and respect of their families, who lived a normal life and were accepted as equals by their friends. I pretended to myself that I was as good as they were, but I knew it wasn’t so. Now I don’t have to be envious any more. I try not to want what I don’t deserve. I’m content with what I have earned by my efforts to live the right way. More power to those who have what I have not. At least, I’m trying. Have I got rid of the poison of envy?

Meditation for the Day

“My soul is restless till it finds its rest in Thee.” A river flows on, until it loses itself in the sea. Our spirits long for rest in the spirit of God. We yearn to realize a peace, a rest, a satisfaction that we have never found in the world or its pursuits. Some are not conscious of their need, and shut the doors of their spirits against the spirit of God. They are unable to have true peace.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may feel the divine unrest. I pray that my soul may find its rest in God.

© 1954, 1975, 1992 by Hazelden Foundation
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Friday, 25 September 2015

Today’s Gift from Hazelden #essentialsofrec #Envy

 25
September



A thousand eyes, but none with correct vision.

— Isacher Hurwitz

William Shakespeare referred to envy as the “green sickness.” There are only losers in the game of envy. When we envy someone else, we have judged ourselves and found something lacking.

Lack of self-love is the soil in which envy grows. Envious people are never satisfied. Self-pity is never sitting far from envy. We feel sorry for ourselves for what we don’t have. Self-pity is like a swamp, the longer we stand in the muck, the more we stink.

Concentrating on what we do have is the perfect antidote for envy. Every one of us has our own special gifts and talents. We find these by looking at ourselves instead of looking at others. By becoming grateful for what we have, we can rejoice in ourselves.

Today let me be grateful for what I have.

From the book:



Our Best Days by Nancy Hull-Mast. © 1990 by Hazelden Foundation
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Saturday, 21 March 2015

The Eye Opener #essentialsofrec #Recovery #Attitude

21
March


Jobs are as good or as bad as the mental attitude we have toward them. No man holds a job but what some other man is envious of him on its account, and every job has its good and bad points.

Too often we hear the excuse that the job was the cause of the drinking, when most frequently it was the drinking that made the job obnoxious.

One man swinging a pick is digging a hole in the ground, and his fellow workman beside him is doing his part in the erection of a Temple.

Maybe it’s not the job at fault; maybe it’s your attitude toward it.

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Saturday, 10 January 2015

Walk In Dry Places #essentialsofrecovery.com #Recovery #Envy

10
January



No Need for Envy
Overcoming Envy


We would be unusual people if we did not suffer from the common feeling of envy. Quite often, we are envious of people who surpass us in some activity or who threaten our self-esteem in some way. Even if we are high achievers in spite of our drinking, we might envy people who appear to be rivaling or overtaking us.

We can make choices about envy. We do not have to be envious of anybody when we fully accept ourselves and God’s will for us. There is no reason to be envious of another if we are doing what God wants us to do and if we have turned our will and lives over to God.

We should be on guard for jealous feelings toward those close to us. Most of us can shrug when we read about strangers winning the million-dollar lottery, but how would we feel if a close friend or relative won? When those envious feeling surface, we might face them by admitting them to others and asking God’s help in rising above them. And if we share these feelings in-group discussions, others will be helped by our display of honesty.

I will accept myself, as I am this day. I will not be jealous of anyone’s status, possessions, or opportunities.
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