28
November
Spaces in Togetherness
Friendship
One of the beautiful aspects of AA is the bonding that develops among members. We truly do achieve a closeness with some people that is unlike anything we ever had before.
The danger in such friendships is that we may become too close in some ways. Without realizing it, we may be making too many demands on others’ time. This can become suffocating to them and eventually detrimental to the friendship.
In such situations, we need to remember the words of Kahlil Gibran; “Let there be spaces in your togetherness.” However, close we feel to others, we must allow them their space.
We should also remember to respect others’ privacy as well as their anonymity. AA should give us close friendships, but not to the point of suffocation.
I’ll remember today not to overstep my boundaries in any friendship. There must be spaces in our togetherness.
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