Sunday, 19 May 2019

A Day At A Time

Refection For The Day

The Program teaches us that only one consideration should qualify our desire to completely disclose the damage we’ve done.  And that’s where a full revelation would seriously harm the one to whom we’re making amends.  Or, just as important, other people.  We can hardly unload a detailed account of extramarital misadventures, for example, on the shoulders of an unsuspecting wife or husband.  When we recklessly make the burdens of others wavier, such actions surely can’t lighten our own burden.  Sometimes, in that sense, “telling all” may be almost a self indulgence for us.  So in making amends, we should be tactful, sensible, considerate, and humble — without being servile.  As a child of God, do I stand on my feet and not crawl before anyone?

Today I Pray

May God show me that self-hatred has no role in making amends to others.  Neither has the play-acting of self-indulgence.  I ask most humbly for His guidance as I strive to maintain a mature balance in interpersonal relations, even in the most casual or fragile ones.

Today I Will Remember

Making amends is mending. 
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