9
November
The Best-Laid Plans
“It is our actions that are important. We leave the results to our Higher Power.”Basic Text p. 88
There’s an old saying we sometimes hear in our meetings: “If you want to make God laugh, make plans.” When we hear this we usually laugh, too, but there’s a nervous edge to our laughter. We wonder if all of our carefully laid plans are doomed to fail. If we’re planning a big event – a wedding, a return to school, or perhaps a career change – we begin to wonder if our plans are the same as our Higher Power’s plans. We are capable of working ourselves into such a frenzy of worry over this question that we refuse to make any plans at all.
But the simple fact is that we really don’t know whether our Higher Power’s plans for our lives are carved in stone or not. Most of us have opinions about fate and destiny but, whether we believe in such theories or not, we still have a responsibility to live our lives and make plans for the future. If we refuse to accept responsibility for our lives, we’re still making plans – plans for a shallow, boring existence.
What we make in recovery are plans, not results. We’ll never know whether the marriage, the education, or the new job is going to work out until we try it. We simply exercise our best judgment, check with our sponsor, pray, use all the information at hand, and make the most reasonable plans we can. For the rest, we trust in the loving care of the God of our understanding, knowing that we’ve acted responsibly.
Just for today: I will make plans, but I will not plan the result & I will trust in my Higher Power’s loving care.

Created to carry the message of recovery to all addicts. Whether the addiction is alcohol, drugs, food or any other addiction the program of recovery is the same. I am a recovering alcoholic of over twenty-seven years, a day at a time of course and I believe my primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics achieve recovery. Remember seven days without a meeting makes one weak. Sign up to get emails.This Blog is NOT IN ANY WAY affiliated to either A.A. or N.A. Help to stop drinking.
Walk In Dry Places
- Home
- Daily Reflections
- Meditations
- Prayers
- Big Book
- Grapevine
- NA Stuff
- Quotes
- Zen Thoughts
- Other Stuff
- 12 Steps
- Keep It Simple
- Recovery Speakers
- As Bill Sees It
- Twenty Four Hours
- Traditions
- WorkShops
- Walk In Dry Places
- Biblical Quotes
- Alanon
- Joe & Charlie
- Literature
- Step By Step
- Eye Opener
- Am I An Alcoholic?
- Native American
- CONTACT US
- Easy Does It
- DISCLAIMER
- Zoom Meetings - N.B. We aren't Responsible for these meetings - Nor do we endorse them
AA Grapevine Quote Your-First Headline-Description
Your-Second-Headline-Title-Here Your-Second-Headline-Description-Here
Your-Third-Headline-Title-Here Your-Third-Headline-Description-Here
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment
I will not allow spam or back links to other sites as I can not moderate where these are going to.